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Where Are Our Black Gay Leaders?
If I could revisit my teenage years, I would surely spare my youth of the pointless promiscuous hookups, clinic scares, and all that came with being “grown” and rebellious. In retrospect, I realize I...
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When You Become “That Guy”
As I sat here and watched the “Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta” reunion, I couldn’t help but notice that it was like watching a car accident: it was terrible to look at, but I couldn’t look away. As a...
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5 Things I Fear As A Black Gay Man
It’s tough enough living in America as a black man. But as gay black men, we oftentimes are more concerned about what our futures will look like than our heterosexual counterparts. As a black gay man,...
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I Don’t ‘Do’ Gay
On a recent, simple Saturday night, I invited one of my closest friends to a party. “Like at a club?” he asked me. “No, no. It’s house party,” I responded. He brightened up a bit. “Oh OK…as long as...
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A Love Letter To The Brothers
As I reflect on the tremendous beauty and genius within our community, I stand in awe of the brilliance I have had the chance to witness among my friends, my brothers and my comrades in our fight to...
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No One Is Teaching Us How To Be Gay Men
“Black men need to start fathering their children, there’s so many gay n****s out here.” I could have begun this article so many different ways. I chose the ignorant quote above, not because I agree,...
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To The Black Gay Community: ‘May The Odds Be Ever In Your Favor’
“The Hunger Games,” a science fiction novel-turned-movie, is based largely on self-interest and survival of teens fighting to the final death. Sometimes I feel as if living in the black gay community...
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